love my friends!

/* A paragraph from Rucha Shinde's reply when I mailed her about a fix I am in*/


10:53 AM (4 hours ago)
Rucha Shinde to me
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HAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH HAHAHAHHAHAHA HAHHAHAHAHAHAH HAHAHHAHAHAHAH
FCK FCK FCK HAHHAHAHAHAHAHAH
FCK DAMN HHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
OK im laughin so hard my moms worried about my sanity...!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
TELL
tell me.... y is it that u always... blooooddy always have to end up in such a mess??

Bummer!

Crying was one thing I had given up long ago along with believing in fate and letting my emotions completely get the better of me.
But I certainly slipped up there. Big style. My emotions just had a field day.
Just look at what happenned - I mean even BigBazaar can tell whether Iam walking through the doors with a pendrive inside my handbag/wallet/purse/pocket but only tis blind referee couldn't tell whether one big football went through the goal post. :X
Like I read in one of the tweets - "I feel like a whore saying thing but England, Can't you just put the ball in?"

Faking it ;-)

I am not going to do that again. Never again. What? You may ask and I will tell you Faking a Boyfriend. Whaaaaaaattttttt? You may ask again. And then I will say I didn’t really have a choice. No actually I did. Err its complicated. LOL But trust me on this, fictional boyfriend is the best boyfriend ever! He is even marriage material. Even for a commitment phobic like me. ESPECIALLY for a commitment phobic like me.

I have done this a couple of times. Under certain circumstances, I have had to invent boyfriends in my head and tell very interesting (read: unconvincing+lame) tales. The guy’s name is usually “Ryan” or “Aryan” and he is damn intelligent, witty, state level football/hockey/basketball player, have kickass sense of humour, and is an engineer. Unlike me, the invented boyfriend loves to watch dumb alien invasion movies and read sci-fi fiction. He speaks impeccable English. This made up guy’s first love is always Formula -1 or Football. His favourite football team is Manchester United.And he hates Brett Lee. That is the only sad part about him. But I am okay with that. C’mmon that guy could be jealous which means he could be crazy about me. He loves rock music and plays for a local band. And things didn’t work out between us because he moved to Canada/Australia for higher studies and everyone knows that long distance relationships don’t always work. So he started dating someone else and I am still stuck over him. After all, he is the best guy I ever dated….lol.

The reason for saying it out loud on my blog is that very recently, I was tempted to invent yet another boyfriend. I hate it when people pester me with their “why are you not thinking about marriage?” or “why
are you still single?” talks. And there is no particular reason for having always been slightly commitment phobic or being single at the moment. I just am. Everything doesn’t always have a reason, you know! And when they still don’t believe me, I tell them this made-up story hoping that this would shut them up and stop me from telling them “~insert a rude expletive here~, mind your own business”. I also tell this story when someone I am not interested in asks me out and I am too polite to say no. But then I have decided that no more of making up boyfriends. It’s a very silly thing to do. I am getting old. I turned 22 in May which is ancient by teenage standards. It is high time that I grow up and act my age.

BTW, it has not been easy to invent boyfriend(s) whenever the need arises. It is a very challenging task. I always have to be creative and convincing. And there are chances that you may goof up between the latest invention and the previous ones. But it’s worth mentioning again that the best guy you ever dated is always the one which is made up in your head. Such a guy gives you ample space, he does n’t try to dominate you and is very tolerable. After all, he is created by you.Pity that he moved to New Zealand or whichever fancy country that was:-p
This happens to be the most colourful chapter in the joke book that makes up my love life(or the lack of it). Seriously, I was such a loser. I should have come up with something more convincing. And I am really surprised that people actually bought these ridiculous stories of mine. One look at the description of the guy and you know it that it has to be fictional. Lame. Really.

So I hope everyone had a good read. Go ahead laugh (at me). I am being a good sport :-p

But women are known to fake Orgasm and men are renowned to fake entire (non-fictional) relationships. So faking a boyfriend is no big deal, eh? Atleast Rucha thinks its ok! Thanks Gal.

The wedding bells have rung, vows taken :-)

I have finally reached Trivandrum. The weddings were A-W-E-S-O-M-E. I love my crazy big fat family. They are so cool. But I really miss my grandpa. He so wanted to be at these weddings. Grandpa, I love you a lot and miss you like crazy!
Seriously, wedding is a tough task. And we had two weddings in our family in one week.I have been so damn busy. I feel disconnected to the entire world.  I have not had the time to even buy a local sim card. Sigh! And it has happenned for the very first time in my life that I have not spoken with my besties for so long. I miss them a lot. A certain thing happenned and I am so embarrassed that I feel like packing my bags and flying to Mumbai. Right Now! lol.
Now that Anu is married to Abhilash, I am on everyone's "to-get-married-off" list. It's scary.

Football Crazy

Everyone here is so damn crazy about football. No wonder I turned out to be such an ardent fan. Every nook and corner of the state has huge banners of the World Cup teams. I have always known (and taken pride in the fact) that Kerala has one kickass football team. In a cricket crazy nation, it feels good to see some fan following and playing of the most beautiful sport.  Kerala, Goa and West Bengal are the top three football following states in India. And it looks like Argentina is the top favourite of Keralites. Brazil is the second most favourite. Hello, do we have any Spain/England followers here?

I have not had much time to catch the world cup action. Now that I am going to Trivandrum in a couple odd days, I hope to watch some live matches on tube. I am a loud mouth football crazy gal. I am dying to watch the world cup matches. Go Spain/Englan Go!

P.S. When will I get to sing "World Cup is coming home"? :|

To all those who were worried sick after reading my last blog entry...

I am a super Girl. Seriously. A super girl who has super duper friends :-) So yesterday, in pouring rain, I carried one huge bag from Virar to Thane all alone. And Bhushan, Chetan and Monish had come to Thane Station to pick me up and from there they helped me with the luggage and we went to Jumana's house. And then we played pool at Hiranandrani Meadows. Yay! It was aawesome fun :-) And I almost forgot to mention that Bhushan and my team defeated Chetan and Monish. Double Yay! :D Suhas joined us some time later.

Right now I am at Eden Woods and will be going to Virar once again to collect another huge bag of mine :-( After that, I think I'll be done. I still have so many people to meet and so many things to do before I leave Mumbai.

Don't have much time... more updates later.

Oh BTW, Some pictures of us :-)

P.S.  I think I'll always suck at this game :-p

Arrrrggggghhh

It's one of those rare moments when I feel like pulling my hair and ...and... I don't know and may be say "Fuck" a million times. I mean I have to carry this shitload of bags to Mulund ALL ALONE and I cant find a single friggin cab here. To come to think of it, I have never ever seen a cab in Virar. Which part of the world am I in?
I wish I had my Mike (my good old car)! For the first time in my life, I feel that its hard to have no help around.
And there are zillions of things to do and I have no time. Am going crazy.....
~looks at her luggage and screams expletives~
back to battling it out with my suitcases :-((((((

In a fix

Iam getting cold feet. Independence and complete feedom are soon going to be a thing of past. The ONLY good thing is that I will get to be with my family again but at a price! I had to quit my job. And I LOVED my job.

 

I don't think that I'll be able to type further. I am extremely gutted about having had to quit my job but at the same time I am looking forward to meeting my family after 9 long months. I am leaving everything in the hands of my parents and sister.

 

 

Punk aint dead!

Prem tells me (I mean his FB update tells m:-p) that Green Day is touring India in January 2011. Iam so damn excited. I hope its true and not just another rumor. I have loved them forever, even before they became a rage. I have loved them even when they were just Pinhead Gunpowders and not ("The")Green Day. I am so going to Bangalore for the gig. I don't care how much the tickeet costs, I don't care even if I hav to travel to Bangalore or wherever the gig is gonna be.
So, the point is I lurrrve Green Day. And in my heart, I will always be a punkrock gal. \m/