"I curse the day you were born" - Sex and the city

I watched Sex and the city (The movie) with one of my best buddies. I liked the movie and loved the dialogue "I curse the day you were born". Reminded me of a verse from one of my poems which went like this:

"I was so happy before meeting you
I curse myself for ever trusting you
You never loved me, did you?
Weren't I a just-for-now girl for you?"

Im not really proud of that poem so Im not going to post the whole thing here :P

k so now coming back to the movie - I think that this dialogue is gonna be a very popular phrase. Me and my friends soon got into a discussion about this dialogue. In the movie, it is said by Charlotte after bumping into carrie's ex. We decided to be silly and wanted to know what would we say if we bumped into one of our best friends' ex or if someone's bf is being intolerable.

Here is how my friends would react :

Ms. P: "What games are you playing with my friend?"
/* She has already said that to someone ;) */

Ms. R: "Stop messing with my friend's life. Dude stay away from her otherwise I'll be messing with your life."
/* The guy better stay away cuz I bet she can screw your life :D */

Ms. A: One tight slap or may be two ;)
/*This is exactly what she would do. heheh! n then she would walk away.*/

Ms J: One really tight slap "get over it and go get a life"
/* But here I would be at the receiving end of the slap hehehe*/

I: "may be he is gay!!!"

/*hahaha*/

It would be better if our guy friends stay from such things. I remember, once, a mutual friend got into a fight with her guy n these guys bashed him with hockey sticks. Im sure after reading this line no one would dare to mess with us.. LOL

After watching the movie, I re-realised the importance of friends in our lives. Seriously, you need atleast one good friend to stand by you for ever and Im lucky to be blessed with quite a few great friends. I do get a bit emotional about my family and friends. I love them to bits.

N by the way Carrie says that all women are looking for one of the two L's - Love or Labels.
Dont know about others but as of now my priorities are a Big C and an I - Career and Independence. N if love and labels follow, I'd be one lucky gal;)

P.S. We dont curse anyone or any of the days for that matter. This was just a silly discussion between some friends.

Some of my friends

The other day I downloaded Picasa and tried my best to place some of myfriends in a single pic grid. But my efforts were in vain as I was unable to place Jammie, Shalu, Kushal n Aniket in there. N moreover the first row was getting repeated n I was too tired to sit n analyse the features/working of Picasa. Finally I managed to create the pic grid using big huge lab's mosaic maker n FLickr. Lolo wanted me to edit the glass of wine from her hand but Im not going to do that.. hehehe!
from top(L-R)
Jasmine, Ruch, Asmi, Jammie, Praju, Shaggy, Suhas, Viraj, Rohan, Abhishek, Rid, group photo (Suhas, Daksha, Myself, Preeti, Shaggy, Jammie, Avinash, Chinmay, Rohan, Anuj n Viraj), Rach, Shalu, Lolo, Priyanka, Pritam, Pradnya, The next one is actually a group photo but only Bhushan is seen....the others are Kushal, Ashwin, Chetan n Aniket, the next one is my pic, Sagar, Pallavi, Another group photo (Pritam, Viraj, Siddhesh, Shaggy, Sanket, Anuj,Rohan, Suhas, Grishma, Manali, Asmi, Myself, Jammie), Photo taken in the coll gymkhana while playing chess with Mukti, n the last one is the class of 2008.
Ahh those days were so much fun... 5 wonderful years in Somaiya. Though we have left college, the friendship will be forever:)

Affection Denied!

You will never know about the tears I have cried
Wondering why all of a sudden was my affection denied
I kept asking you what went wrong with us
Were you worried that i would make a fuss

More than anything else
It is your newly found silence and pretence
That makes me sick and weep
For ever believing that your love was deep

I thought you were different, I thought you really cared
But it seems now that your true feelings, you never shared
Whenever I was in doubt, I made lame excuses for you
Hoping that all these doubts are unreal and not at all true

If you ever really cared, you wouldnt have left me alone
In this dead city, you wouldnt let me mourn
If you really cared, you wouldnt have slipped away
If you really cared, with my heart, you would never play!

I shouldnt have let things get so far, I find it bane
But life is like this there is gain as well as pain
Iam strong enough n I have been through worse
Though it took me a while, my heart and mind are mine again

I will cry no more tears, I have moved on
I have already stopped wondering about my affection denied
I have nothing left to ask you, far away from you, Im gone
I havent made any fuss, my feelings for you have died.

P.S. The situation in the poem is just a figment of my imagination. So people stop thinking that I'm nursing a bruised heart (esp Shal.. lol) .I'm blessed with wonderful people around me and Iam really really happy:) Smiiiilllllllleeee:)

Yay! My first blog

I have been thinking of plunging into the blog world for a while now. Its insecurity and fear (the fact that anyone could be reading it kinda intimidates me) that kept me away from blogging for so long. I must admit that Iam not that much of a writer and I still havent figured out what I really want to post about. But I have decided that from today onwards I will take efforts to post things here. I have no clue how many will even bother to read my posts and to the two of you who may actually visit - "thanks a ton" . It is Rucha who inspired me to start blogging. She has been an active blogger for a while now. Well I guess that is all for now. Hey! Today Mumbai got soaked in this year's first rain. The atmosphere here is just wonderful and the sweet smell after the first rain, the geosmin, is absolutely amazing. Yeah, that is all for now.
I hope that this is the first blog entry of many.